Comments for clevergirl http://clevergirl.com/clevergirl Adventures with Janice Fri, 15 Apr 2011 16:33:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 Comment on Pavlov explains *everything* by Mark Gasman http://clevergirl.com/clevergirl/?p=128&cpage=1#comment-2267 Mark Gasman Fri, 15 Apr 2011 16:33:13 +0000 http://clevergirl.com/clevergirl/?p=128#comment-2267 Hi Janice, I came across this blog post and I really can relate to your ‘Pavlovian Diagram’. I myself don’t communicate with friends and family that much, and I sometimes wonder why I’m that way. Though I have to admit, it’s kind of a defense mechanism on my part — if I get too close or if I spend time with them a lot or chat with them regularly, when they leave e.g. migrate, or become too busy with their lives, and the like, I’ll tend to feel sad or hurt so my brain says: ‘just put some distance to avoid the hurt that will eventually come’. Hope to read more posts from you, thank you for sharing this interesting theory, clever girl. Hi Janice,

I came across this blog post and I really can relate to your ‘Pavlovian Diagram’. I myself don’t communicate with friends and family that much, and I sometimes wonder why I’m that way. Though I have to admit, it’s kind of a defense mechanism on my part — if I get too close or if I spend time with them a lot or chat with them regularly, when they leave e.g. migrate, or become too busy with their lives, and the like, I’ll tend to feel sad or hurt so my brain says: ‘just put some distance to avoid the hurt that will eventually come’. Hope to read more posts from you, thank you for sharing this interesting theory, clever girl.

]]> Comment on 7 things I did right with Emmet Labs by Janice http://clevergirl.com/clevergirl/?p=161&cpage=1#comment-2162 Janice Fri, 28 May 2010 23:20:54 +0000 http://clevergirl.com/clevergirl/?p=161#comment-2162 Thanks Robin -- you've done your share of brave writing, so I particularly appreciate your kind words. xoxo back atcha. Thanks Robin — you’ve done your share of brave writing, so I particularly appreciate your kind words. xoxo back atcha.

]]> Comment on 7 things I did right with Emmet Labs by Robin Wolaner http://clevergirl.com/clevergirl/?p=161&cpage=1#comment-2161 Robin Wolaner Fri, 28 May 2010 22:37:30 +0000 http://clevergirl.com/clevergirl/?p=161#comment-2161 Janice, this is a brave post. I am so sorry to learn of your brother's death, I had no idea. Perhaps we can have a competition for the worst year of our lives. I hope yours is now as good as mine is, you deserve it. xoxo Robin Janice, this is a brave post. I am so sorry to learn of your brother’s death, I had no idea. Perhaps we can have a competition for the worst year of our lives. I hope yours is now as good as mine is, you deserve it.

xoxo Robin

]]> Comment on All religions believe this. Or should. by Christopher Blizzard http://clevergirl.com/clevergirl/?p=141&cpage=1#comment-2064 Christopher Blizzard Wed, 03 Mar 2010 07:45:51 +0000 http://clevergirl.com/clevergirl/?p=141#comment-2064 I strongly suggest this, if you have an hour or so: http://fora.tv/2009/08/14/Karen_Armstrong_Charter_for_Compassion Spent a Saturday afternoon watching this a couple months ago. Happy they shipped the charter! I strongly suggest this, if you have an hour or so:

http://fora.tv/2009/08/14/Karen_Armstrong_Charter_for_Compassion

Spent a Saturday afternoon watching this a couple months ago. Happy they shipped the charter!

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