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The gender thing

Sunday, May 15th, 2005

To the chagrin of some good friends, it does bother me that in certain segments of my work, men outnumber women 10:1. Women make up more than half of the American workforce and I wish I saw that more evenly represented in circles of power – whether that’s alpha geeks or executive suites.

Some cursory research confirms what is easily seen….There are relatively few women working in the technology, software development, and senior management sectors. The question is: Why? Is it that women simply choose not to enter these fields? Perhaps. But also true is that the circumstance is self-perpetuating.

I believe that this is a case where the symptom is also a cause. Diseases with this profile are pernicious and can be devastating if the symptoms persist unchecked.

It must be frustrating for white men to have to listen to the diversity rant over and over – especially those who genuinely embrace diversity. It’s legitimate that very few women work in the technology sector, and so even the best efforts to be inclusive can end in uncomfortably homogenous situations.

My dissatisfaction with the current imbalance does not devalue the contribution you (white men) make. The two are completely unrelated – I can value you and still wish to see others at the table.

Somewhere in the world there’s a woman in a burka writing bitchin javascript. I wonder what she’s doing with it? Wouldn’t it be nice to know? Smart, entrepreneurial people come in all shapes and sizes (and genders, races, religions,…). I wish more of that were represented in our business.

I’ve been talking about the diversity issue a lot in the past few months, and I’ve been told that if I’m going to complain about it, I have to take action. That’s fair, and I’d love to. But how do you take action without stumbling into other evils, like tokenism? I fear that it’s damned if you do, damned if you don’t. So I’m not sure what action to take. If you have any suggestions, I’d love to hear them.

I love smart people

Tuesday, May 10th, 2005

I’ve spent two days locked in a conference room with 30 smart people. Although 28 of them were men, it was great fun. Here’s what I love about smart people — they argue really well. They get angry and start yelling, and then someone comes out with a brilliant analogy that resolves the whole thing and everyone applauds.

I’m not sure how I got so lucky. My career is intellectually, socially, and financially rewarding. I’m surrounded by people who aren’t intimidated by me, who I can stand toe-to-toe with, who respect me, who acknowledge where I’m strong and give support where I’m weak. My company is entering its most exciting phase yet (when has it not been exciting, though?), and I’m part of making the excitement happen.

Despite what’s been said, I’m an optimist. I find poetry and nobility in the mundane, and believe it’s possible to build a company for humans — with kindness, intelligence, and fire.

Run, Lola, Run!

Friday, September 10th, 2004

Jason’s cousin just got married. She’s 17 and belongs to the Christian Fellowship church. Here’s a recap from one of the wedding guests:

It started out fairly normal, then the pastor started talking about their â??love bankâ? and how they had to make more deposits than withdrawals, etc, etc. member FDIC. That was a little strange and boring.

Then he started talking about how they each had 5 duties. (I was still partially asleep from the love bank speech.) The only one of the groomâ??s I can remember was that he had to provide financial support for her. Then, he proceeded to tell the bride what her 5 duties were. They are as follows:

  1. Must sexually satisfy her man
  2. Must remain attractive
  3. Must provide family (i.e., be a good breeder)
  4. Must adopt his likes, dislikes and interests, and support him emotionally
  5. Must keep a supportive/clean & tidy home (i.e., doing the dishes immediately after dinner)

I wish I’d been there so I could’ve made a proper ruckus during the “if anyone knows any reason why these two shouldn’t be joined…” part.