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All religions believe this. Or should.

Friday, November 13th, 2009

The world’s religious leaders came together this year to make a joint statement about what is common across all of them.

Their statement is the best (first? only?) representation of the collective values of the world’s population that I’ve seen. It’s a call to action and a statement of purpose. I commit myself to strive to live up to these as if they were commandments.

It’s called the Charter for Compassion:

The principle of compassion lies at the heart of all religious, ethical and spiritual traditions, calling us always to treat all others as we wish to be treated ourselves. Compassion impels us to work tirelessly to alleviate the suffering of our fellow creatures, to dethrone ourselves from the centre of our world and put another there, and to honour the inviolable sanctity of every single human being, treating everybody, without exception, with absolute justice, equity and respect.

It is also necessary in both public and private life to refrain consistently and empathically from inflicting pain. To act or speak violently out of spite, chauvinism, or self-interest, to impoverish, exploit or deny basic rights to anybody, and to incite hatred by denigrating others—even our enemies—is a denial of our common humanity. We acknowledge that we have failed to live compassionately and that some have even increased the sum of human misery in the name of religion.

We therefore call upon all men and women ~

  • to restore compassion to the centre of morality and religion
  • to return to the ancient principle that any interpretation of scripture that breeds violence, hatred or disdain is illegitimate
  • to ensure that youth are given accurate and respectful information about other traditions, religions and cultures
  • to encourage a positive appreciation of cultural and religious diversity
  • to cultivate an informed empathy with the suffering of all human beings—even those regarded as enemies.

We urgently need to make compassion a clear, luminous and dynamic force in our polarized world. Rooted in a principled determination to transcend selfishness, compassion can break down political, dogmatic, ideological and religious boundaries. Born of our deep interdependence, compassion is essential to human relationships and to a fulfilled humanity. It is the path to enlightenment, and indispensible to the creation of a just economy and a peaceful global community.

God’s not actually dead

Monday, June 1st, 2009

God is dead, but he’s a man about 16 or 20 years old or maybe 77, I think. I can send him a message and he comes alive and reads the message. He’s a special person. No one sees him. He’s not actually dead. Before bed I say, “God, I really want this war to end because people are blowing up a place, and if they blow it up, I ‘ll never get to see it.”

—Evan, 2008 (early)

The Meaning of Christmas (without Christ)

Thursday, December 23rd, 2004

Jason and Evan and I are revving up for the first big visit from Santa Clause. Evan is two-and-three-quarters, and is very excited about Christmas. Virgil (the angelic dog) sits atop the tree. Paper chains and pine roping deck the halls.

There’s only one catch: I’m not Christian.

I don’t believe what Christians do. I don’t believe that an external god incarnated a son who was sent to earth and then to hell to atone for my sins. Nonetheless, I have a rich spiritual life with an internal concept of god that connects me to all things. According to many non-Christians, I should reject Christmas if I reject Christianity. I disagree.

Cultures use holidays to mark time, teach useful behaviors and values, and provide opportunities for private reflection and personal growth. America celebrates Christmas, and at my house Christmas is an important spiritual holiday — even without Christ.

At its most honorable, Christmas reaffirms our faith in abundance. Like Hannukah, Christmas provides lights in the darkness and proves that the universe is mysteriously benevolent. Santa Clause embodies generosity and dares us to believe in the unbelievable. We look inside to figure out what we *really* want (an important skill that takes a surprising amount of practice). We learn that we often get what we ask for even though sometimes we don’t.

I understand that at its worst, Christmas can be a greedy, gluttonous fiasco of purposeless consumption. We’re teaching Evan that Santa gives us presents in order to teach us to give. We light the tree to learn that darkness is beautiful. We make our Christmas list to know ourselves better and to share that knowledge with others. We do these rituals to acknowledge our connection to a magical, hopeful, kind world that’s bigger than we can know.

Merry Christmas.

Run, Lola, Run!

Friday, September 10th, 2004

Jason’s cousin just got married. She’s 17 and belongs to the Christian Fellowship church. Here’s a recap from one of the wedding guests:

It started out fairly normal, then the pastor started talking about their â??love bankâ? and how they had to make more deposits than withdrawals, etc, etc. member FDIC. That was a little strange and boring.

Then he started talking about how they each had 5 duties. (I was still partially asleep from the love bank speech.) The only one of the groomâ??s I can remember was that he had to provide financial support for her. Then, he proceeded to tell the bride what her 5 duties were. They are as follows:

  1. Must sexually satisfy her man
  2. Must remain attractive
  3. Must provide family (i.e., be a good breeder)
  4. Must adopt his likes, dislikes and interests, and support him emotionally
  5. Must keep a supportive/clean & tidy home (i.e., doing the dishes immediately after dinner)

I wish I’d been there so I could’ve made a proper ruckus during the “if anyone knows any reason why these two shouldn’t be joined…” part.